Comments on: Does Your Child Talk Back? Here are Some Tips for You https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=preventing-dealing-back-talk Meaningful Productivity That Connects This Life With The Hereafter Fri, 12 Mar 2021 14:53:18 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Marisca Longwicker https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-286720 Fri, 12 Mar 2021 14:53:18 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-286720 Oh SHUT UP! It’s not called talking back it’s explaining!!! Like we’re not allowed to bloody have our say just cuz were the kids an our feelings don’t matter if we can’t argue and be mad back respect has to go both ways it doesn’t matter who the conflict is between parents are still humans we don’t help that they gave birth to us they can still be bad to us whether for good reason or not!!!!! I don’t wanna hear I don’t need to like what’s good for me I’m the subject and the one getting directly and purposely provoked only how I feel matters!!! Good thing I never want to become a parent so can’t wait to get to live alone so there’s no one being mean and annoying and making rules and boundaries against me and make me respect and be nice to them no matter how horrid and harsh they are towards me under my roof (what will I care about being lonely people are crazy to miss being treated like that it depends on that not the person themselves whether I love or hate and put up with them in the long-term). Religion can be horribly unfair especially with this topic why I don’t 100% trust the internet for religious guidance “even amongst your spouse’s and offsprings you may have enemies” “stand as witnesses even against your parents and family” Asian parents are especially the worst with being harsh and strict and thinking being responsible for me means bossing me around and intervening with my business no matter how old I get it’s not the best if it pisses me off go F off else you’ll be so sorry for your life!!!!!!!!!

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By: Jameela https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-271571 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:14:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-271571 In reply to Erin.

I assume full time school means that your son is in kindergarten or year 1. This means that he’s still young so I’d focus on teaching him the correct way to talk respectfully and politely. Always give positive attention every time he talks nicely. When he speaks disrespectfully then tell him in a neutral voice, “It’s not nice to talk to your mother in that tone or to use those words” then ask him how can he be more polite. If need be then practice a polite conversation. If the behaviour still persists then as a last resort, use timeout for a few minutes. Tell him that he needs to sit and think about what he did and how he can give a better response. I hope this will help and pray that your children grow to have the best of character.

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By: Jameela https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-271567 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:14:55 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-271567 In reply to Tesneem Ayoub.

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu. Jazakillahu khayr for your lovely comment.

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By: Jameela Ho https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-271565 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:14:54 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-271565 In reply to Hsdiza.

Wa alaykum salam, alhamdulillah. thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it!

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By: Jameela Ho https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-263287 Fri, 24 Nov 2017 22:07:47 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-263287 In reply to Hsdiza.

Wa alaykum salam, alhamdulillah. thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it!

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By: Hsdiza https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-256556 Fri, 29 Sep 2017 19:09:27 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-256556 Sister salaam and thank you for this write up. you hit the nail on the head directly. Mashallah.

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By: Hsdiza https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-271543 Fri, 29 Sep 2017 15:09:27 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-271543 Sister salaam and thank you for this write up. you hit the nail on the head directly. Mashallah.

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By: Jameela https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-256366 Thu, 28 Sep 2017 10:30:47 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-256366 In reply to Tesneem Ayoub.

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu. Jazakillahu khayr for your lovely comment.

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By: Jameela https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-256364 Thu, 28 Sep 2017 10:28:29 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-256364 In reply to Erin.

I assume full time school means that your son is in kindergarten or year 1. This means that he’s still young so I’d focus on teaching him the correct way to talk respectfully and politely. Always give positive attention every time he talks nicely. When he speaks disrespectfully then tell him in a neutral voice, “It’s not nice to talk to your mother in that tone or to use those words” then ask him how can he be more polite. If need be then practice a polite conversation. If the behaviour still persists then as a last resort, use timeout for a few minutes. Tell him that he needs to sit and think about what he did and how he can give a better response. I hope this will help and pray that your children grow to have the best of character.

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By: Tesneem Ayoub https://productivemuslim.com/preventing-dealing-back-talk/#comment-251452 Tue, 22 Aug 2017 03:02:10 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=15120#comment-251452 ]]> السلام عليكم ورحمة الله و بركاته
Barak Allaah feeki for writing this. I am not a parent yet myself, but I personally found this piece insightful. The command for good character in Islam truly isn’t reserved for our peers who are similar to us in age, but also our children. After all, they are people, and I love how this article emphasises this and also emphasises strongly in remaining calm and not turning rancid and resorting to screaming, or worse, hitting. Good job, Jameela! Allaahumma barik ❤

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