Comments on: Mending a Broken Heart: Overcoming a Divorce

By: Shoeba

Shoeba — Sat, 19 Jun 2021 14:41:48 +0000

Aslamu Alaikum. I’m currently separated from my husband after 1 year of marriage. The problem is family interference and husband not standing up to justice. My husband has not protected me or has shown any remorse to all the wrong things he’s done to me. Its been a week with no contact and i strongly believe he has been told by his family not to reach out. Marriage is between two people but mine unfortunately hasnt worked out although i believe i have given everything i had left in me. I feel this time this could be it. And the thought of divorce is already breaking me. Im scared of how to deal with it when and if it happens. I have strong feelings for my husband and i pray he will see sense soon and come to take me home. The problem is living next door to the inlaws has been incredibly difficult and i have never imagined my marriage to end like this. My husband will not move and i will forver feel anxious living next door. My husband just doesn’t seem to understand me and therefore always defends his family. I am struggling so much and losing my mind to not knowing whats yet to come. I have no support and i feel like giving up. My heart is torn and all i want is my husband back but he doesn’t care. My marriage didn’t start off on a good note due to lockdown and other pressures. Can someone help me

By: Knowledge21

Knowledge21 — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 02:40:56 +0000

In reply to Rukayat. I am curious. How are you doing now?

By: Knowledge21

Knowledge21 — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 02:39:26 +0000

In reply to syeda.

Its not a punishment.
1. We are tested.
2. it is also the natural consequences of our decision/actions.
With #2… talking to scholar, therapist, close friend may help in pointing out where we are making mistake. Why are we getting trapped with toxic man? how can we self improve and improve our search approach?

By: Knowledge21

Knowledge21 — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 02:32:10 +0000

In reply to Imran UK. how is your situation now?

By: Knowledge21

Knowledge21 — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 02:30:35 +0000

In reply to Rajon Manik. Please do not make same mistake as me. Inability to recognize toxic behavior delays inevitable divorce and ends it much worse. I am not saying she is toxic but I am also not saying she is not. Read on signs of toxic people, toxic relationship, talk to counselor, if you see signs of borderline or toxicity then walk out.

By: Susu

Susu — Mon, 22 Feb 2021 07:52:33 +0000

In reply to ASSINA. Dear Assina, I am going to exactely the same riight now.... how are you doing and what happened? Did you find back together?

By: Shuraya

Shuraya — Wed, 18 Sep 2019 15:17:02 +0000

In reply to Rajon Manik. Assalaam walaikum How are you now?

By: Aiaulim Kumekbay

Aiaulim Kumekbay — Mon, 22 Jul 2019 22:35:55 +0000

In reply to Nurgul. Assalamu aleikum nice to hear smone from my country,girl) i had just divorced and trying to mend myself together,subhanAllah,how is your life now?

By: Shams Shams

Shams Shams — Sat, 01 Jun 2019 18:37:36 +0000

Thank you. This was beneficial to me.

By: Rajon Manik

Rajon Manik — Thu, 19 Jul 2018 05:51:30 +0000

just last week thursday i have been away from my kids and wife due to a massive fight,my wife who has been married from before and has a child with her ex partner i took on the responsibility of the child as well as her we got married in 2012 and was blessed with a daughter in 2013 and again blessed with a boy in 2017 who is going to one years old next month insha allah,the fight started due to my actions i told her 10 year old boy 7 to 8 times wait wait while i dish up the food at the end i told him to piss off
and go up stairs know how bad of me while his mum just sat there saying nothing to him at that moment she just lashed out on me saying all sorts of words that i couldn’t even imagine she would say i got angry and pushed one pizza onto the floor that’s when she just flipped and throw the plate at me yes you read right than got up told her mum via phone that she cant live with this man i had to claim my 11 month old boy down and 4 year old daughter before i left the house and drove to my mums house with only just 2 shirts and a tshirt due to having work the next day.on saturday me my mum and my 1 year old baby niece went out shopping in the car which is in my wifes name and also the fiance is in her name horrid to tell you people this but she reported the car as stolen i got pull over by the police had my mum in tears and my niece just looking around parked the car and was told what had happened i later reported to the police that she had thrown a plate at me which caused these injuries which i am now regretting i did but one has to be taught a lesson now i’m fearing the worst divorce given by her she is a very stubborn person only allah knows how i kept on with her after all she has done to me and my family she even stopped me from letting my mum see my children since they were born how can woman do such a thing to a husband who is your second husband.i work and give my wife 1000 a month to maintain my house hold stuff she is in charge of all the money and bills and shopping what i cant figure out is how can you be so selfish and report your car stolen and try to get your husband into trouble how childish can you be. NOW I ASK FELLOW MUSLIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS MAKE DUA FOR ME AND THAT MY MARRIAGE IS NOT BROKEN AND THAT MY WIFE GETS SABR FROM ALLAH AND DOESNT DO WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO