Comments on: Why We Don’t Take Advice Productively and How to Solve That

By: Aisha Muhammad-Jamiu

Aisha Muhammad-Jamiu — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:34:34 +0000

As salam alaykum, Sis. Sana –
That’s actually a very nice & inspiring article. But my question is ; what if the person giving you advice is someone younger than you?
(or correcting you or telling you that you’re wrong)
Personally, i don’t listen to such a person cos I believe am older & more experienced than him/her.
So, what should I do?

By: Rose

Rose — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:34:34 +0000

Nowadays when u speak the truth or give sound advice, the youngsters either make fun of you or cut you short as u mentioned.
Very few people will appreciate.
My motto is: If you are a sincere follower of your Deen, it is your duty to speak up or advice when something against Islam cropped up regardless of whether people like it or not. U will be discharging your responsibilities as followers of our beloved prophet.

By: Bisma

Bisma — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

My heart always prays for you, after reading these articles,
you’re doing a great great job, Allah will reward you.
Life changing articles. GBU!

By: Prof.Isak I.Mujawar

Prof.Isak I.Mujawar — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

Assalamu alaikum
May Almighty Allah help us to understand each others
dear brother I have read complete article really it is very important in today’s scenario. We take the meanings other way & that is creating the problems.Hope you will continue to write many more such important articles & provide learners opportunity to learn more.
Jazakallah khayr

By: Khadeejah

Khadeejah — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

Asalamu alaykum

A nice article MashaAllah I learn something.
Jazakum Allah Khayr

By: Razia Khan

Razia Khan — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

Assalamalaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuh
Shukran for your advice. We all learn from our mistakes. May Allah reward you and make life easy for you.

By: Safiya Muhammad Ibrahim

Safiya Muhammad Ibrahim — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah, jazakillah khairan for such a beneficial post may Allah swt make us able to use your advice, and it comes to me at a time im in need of such advice. I pray that Allah swt gives you shifa

By: Shakila

Shakila — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:38 +0000

Assalamoalaikum dear , Jizakil Allah Khair. a nice article on how to accept a advice. Can u kindly write some words on how to accept the reactions in giving a advice? One answer is Patience and what the others may be ?Take Care

By: shyma

shyma — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:37 +0000

Assalamalaikum warahmatullahi wabarkatuh
Masha Allah great advice.Masha Allah U really have a positive attitude towards life .May Allah give U shifa Insha Allah U will b cured soon.May Allah SWT increase Ur levels in this world and aakhira

By: Enisa

Enisa — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 11:32:35 +0000

When I had my first baby I received constantly advices -from other “new” mothers as well as from olders…I always forced myself to listen carefully, think about it, and if it makes sense-implement the advice, and if not-just skipped it. This is because I witnessed situations where older parents were giving advices to younger parents and were offended by their reaction, so the least you can do when anyone is giving you any kind of advice is to listen, so you show respect to person giving you advice.