Comments on: 5 Ways to Boost Your Time As A Single Muslimah

By: fabiha

fabiha — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 12:58:48 +0000

In reply to Private.

ASSALAM O ALAIKUM SISTER,
i read your comment and wanted to discuss few things with you. i understand your issue as i have the same background and situation. focus on yourself first it means try to find your purpose in life first of all, set your priorities then. first priority is always Allah SWT. and try to implement this formula when dealing with any clash. say the right thing in humble way and leave the environment(go to other room for the time being to avoid stressful situation). sometimes ignore their words when possible. confront when limits are crossed.
parents are special in the way they can easily label you ignorant, disobedient. they know their rights but mis use them even many times. may be parents are like that they want to have that autority. well we can not change them, we can change the way we respond to them. pray load to have strength, do personal grooming (watch how to raise ur self esteem video on youtube) have confidence in yourself dear.
it is all a hard process but not impossible. you can do it in sha Allah.
may Allah bring ease for you soon ameen.

By: Maryam

Maryam — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 12:58:47 +0000

AssalamuAlaikum
Mashallah Sr, I find this article so simple and to the point. I really appreciate your tips here. According to what I’m going through now as a single Muslimah I realized tips no. 1 and 2 is are more important for me to follow while working on keeping up with the rest of the tips you shared in this article. Thank you so much for your help. J.A.K.

By: Ssb

Ssb — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:24:52 +0000

Masha Allah….amazing article and wonderful tips that I hv not read before…..
Insha Allah will implimemt them in my life…
Jazakallah khair sis..

By: Marwa

Marwa — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:24:52 +0000

“Whilst getting married is a huge milestone in our lives, it does not need to be our only focus, as we are slaves of Allah (glorified and exalted be He) first, above all other roles in life.”
I loved this part!
JazakAllahu Khair :)

By: Umaira

Umaira — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:24:52 +0000

Ma sha Allah nice article

By: farha

farha — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:18:03 +0000

Very helpful articles.

By: Amira

Amira — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:18:02 +0000

Thanks a lot for sharing this with us , Lotifa.
There are more stuff a single women can do , it can vary depending on the woman’s interests.
If you are interested in the practical life, don’t lose the opportunity to sharpen your skills, improve your resume or start your own business.
If you are interested in the social and marital life, invest time learning about what makes a successful marriage and how to raise children with healthy body , mind and soul.
I wish all sisters invest time to explore themselves, to find their passion and interests, to enjoy their own company. If a woman can’t support , motivate and make herself happy , no one else can.

We all have a lot of flaws, unfortunately they keep covered and later appear in terms of marriage problems or a wrong way of raising children.
No one is perfect, don’t search for Mr.Perfect ’cause he doesn’t exist and don’t forget that you are not Mrs.Perfect too.
Learn to accept your flaws and the others’ flaws.

Do something to have a break from when you get married and priorities change , whether it’s a career path or a voluntary work, so as not to regret later.

By: Izza

Izza — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:13:23 +0000

In reply to Adda.

Nice…Thanks to share your experience to us…

By: Asma

Asma — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:19:14 +0000

In reply to Adda.

Salaam aleykum Sister, jazakAllahu khayran for ur comment n for ur magazine.
MashAllah it’s beautiful n may Allah reward U n the sisters who work with U for the effort u guys make to help the sisters of this Ummah, ameen.
I can really relate to what you said, that’s very true indeed, may Allah help us all become better servants to Him, ameen.
Très bonne continuation in shaa Allah et bon courage ma soeur :-)

By: a.ansari

a.ansari — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:19:13 +0000

dear sister, remarkable article, I hope to Allah that i benefit from your advice, remember in dua
Jazakillah