Comments on: [Productive Teens – Part 2] Let’s Beat Bullying! https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=teens-part-2 Meaningful Productivity That Connects This Life With The Hereafter Sun, 15 Jul 2018 14:19:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Henna https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-285408 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 14:19:52 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-285408 I’m 16 and a girl and I just started college in 2013. I get harassed by a few girls in college for no apparent reason. I don’t know them and they don’t know me although I know that they hang out and talk to a girl that doesn’t like me. I’ve never done or said anything to any of them but their presence just makes me uncomfortable. The give me dirty looks and try to start fights and talk about me whenever they see me. Also one of the girls is known to cause fights and is kind of aggressive. People and my friends have told me that they don’t like me cause they’re jealous of me and I don’t know why. Their presence is just ruining my whole college experience and I don’t feel like going to college anymore. Whenever I see them my heart races because I’m sacred that they might hurt me or spread and say nasty things about me. I try my best to avoid them but it’s getting hard because they’re in the same building as me and hang out in my building too. I actually ended up in tears once in college because it all just became too much. I don’t know what to do? I know Allah is testing me and He knows what I’m going through. I just need some advice on what I should do and inshallah Allah will give me the Sabr and strength to get through this

]]> By: fatima https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280705 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:57 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280705 alhamdullilah, you have sent us this article it is such a marvellous article. may all bless you all in your hard work. Ameen

]]> By: educatedanxiety https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280707 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:57 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280707 MashAllah. Excellent post. I wish I knew about these tips back when I was being bullied! I’d like to read more from you.

-Amir
http://www.educatedanxiety.com

]]> By: Amina https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280700 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280700 It was staggering reading this as I realised that I have an adult in my family who is a bully, SubahānAllāh! I always wondered what was wrong with her…
At least now we know how to handle these situations with her.
I appreciate the post.

]]> By: berserk hijabi https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280696 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280696 By the way,I don’t really agree with what the author has said with regard to adult intervention. If I never told anyone what was going on would probably still be bullied to this day.
One more tip:Don’t waste your energy hating the person. It’s not good for you.Really,it isn’t.

]]> By: Sanna https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280697 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280697 Salam I teach a group of muslim girls in Australia, and bullying has been experience by at least half the class. Mashallah your references to Quranic verses and Hadith really reinforce the help them deal much better with having these information. Jazakallah Khar. Appreciate your advice.

]]> By: Saahir https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280698 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280698 thanks a lot… a great article

]]> By: Marjia https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280704 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:56 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280704 JazakaAllaahu khairan, a very insightful article

]]> By: Yasmin https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-280694 Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:58:55 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-280694 Jazakallah khair for this much needed post!

]]> By: Henna https://productivemuslim.com/teens-part-2/#comment-80870 Sun, 22 Feb 2015 03:04:15 +0000 https://productivemuslim.com/?p=6196#comment-80870 I’m 16 and a girl and I just started college in 2013. I get harassed by a few girls in college for no apparent reason. I don’t know them and they don’t know me although I know that they hang out and talk to a girl that doesn’t like me. I’ve never done or said anything to any of them but their presence just makes me uncomfortable. The give me dirty looks and try to start fights and talk about me whenever they see me. Also one of the girls is known to cause fights and is kind of aggressive. People and my friends have told me that they don’t like me cause they’re jealous of me and I don’t know why. Their presence is just ruining my whole college experience and I don’t feel like going to college anymore. Whenever I see them my heart races because I’m sacred that they might hurt me or spread and say nasty things about me. I try my best to avoid them but it’s getting hard because they’re in the same building as me and hang out in my building too. I actually ended up in tears once in college because it all just became too much. I don’t know what to do? I know Allah is testing me and He knows what I’m going through. I just need some advice on what I should do and inshallah Allah will give me the Sabr and strength to get through this

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